The osmotic nature of sin

Our conversation picked up on the two discreet camps of belief vis-à-vis the interplay of personal and business lives. On one side there is the belief that what one does "in the privacy of their own homes" or even "after work hours" should have no bearing on how they function at work "as long as it doesn't harm anyone." The other camp believes that a person's business life and personal life are both indicative of the character of the person.
To put this in concrete terms Bill Clinton was seen by the former group as beset upon by hypocritical, right-wing bigots who wanted to impeach the president on matters completely unrelated to his fitness to serve. The latter group saw the president as having broken trust with the American people. They saw his juvenile goings on as actionable, or if not criminal, worthy of forceful censure.

I have yet to feel quite ill at home and quite normal at work. Similarly, I have never gone to work feeling feverish and assumed that because I contracted the illness at home that it wouldn't infect others while at work. There is a very permeable membrane between who I am at work and who I am at home. Beyond what I wear and the workplace rules that I have to conform to regarding appropriate discussion topics, avoiding harassment, and not eating other peoples' food from the refrigerator, I am the same person. If I have a fight with my wife it is logical to assume that I will be less avuncular with my staff. If I make an unfortunate gaffe at work one should expect that I will be worrisome or distracted when I sit down to dinner at home.
So how silly is the argument that my nefarious actions (based on the moral and ethical teachings of the Church), however unrelated to what I do at work, will have no consequences on the choices I make 'on the clock.' Sins have a transmutative effect on the entire person.

When Bob from accounting comes to work covered in bruises and lacerations he will without a doubt be asked over and over again what happened to him. If his answer is that he spent the weekend beating himself with a 2x4 his HR representative will be call him to her office forthwith. How different is the spiritual equivalent? There is a discernible darkness to those battling great sin. Conversely, if we look at St. Seraphim of Sarov, he glowed visibly as a consequence of his holiness. St. Anthony the Great was able to be picked out of a crowd of monks over and over by those searching his guidance or healing. They would arrive and immediately run towards him, embrace him, and beg his aid.
This is not a call to make judgements about all ones coworkers or to point fingers at friends of family. This is an entreaty to reason and deference to the consistent teachings of the Church over the millennia above the contradictory and equivocating reflections of mass media.
Sins have a transmutative effect on the entire person.
ReplyDeleteA simple idea totally missed by most. If you spend your nights drinking yourself into a stuper even in the privacy of your home while doing nothing illegal and 'hurting' no one it will have profound effects on the other 20 hours of the day.
Thanks for the comment. That's my reckoning as well. As much as one might try if a father lies, cheats, and steals at work to close another deal he can rationalize it all he wants, but that permissiveness to sin as a means to an end will spill into how he parents and his relationship with friends and family.
ReplyDeletethe Lord sees what we do in private. It is easy to compartmentalize our life and necessary to some degree but ultimately it leads to neurosis and fragmentation. We are as intergrated body mind and soul as the God the Father, Son and Holy Spirit are. The Son does not act contrary to the Father.
ReplyDeleteAnother aspect I was going to touch on, but ran out of room for fear of going on forever, was how people can aim for goodness in some areas of their lives and be complete failures in others. It may be worth a separate post. Truth be told my forays into "opinion posting" have been minimal so I may post on it if people care to read my thoughts on things.
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